17 November 2008, 8:46 pm
I met my current bf while working in a remote location. He's from Michigan and I live in Anchorage, AK. We met while working in northern Alaska in May. We started seeing each other at the end of June. That project ended in July and we have both been working out of the Anchorage office since. He stays in Anchorage for several weeks at a time then goes back to MI for a week or two. Things are going good with us. We seem to fit well together but i don't know if he is willing to leave his family and friends to move to Alaska. We are not ready to move in together right now anyway. Am i wasting my time? Should i stop seeing him and look for someone in my area code or should i continue to kindle the hope that things will work out? I've discussed this with him a few times but don't want him to feel pressured. What should i do? I don't want him to have to leave his friends. I understand that it is a big deal to move that far. I would never ask him to do it for our relationship. I don't want to be the reason he moves. I'm hoping it will be a career decision. I'm just starting to develop serious feelings in this relationship and don't know if i'm setting myself up for a heart break.... Read More »
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